The last ten days have been very tough for the country as a whole. The heinous attack on those poor soldiers who had dedicated their lives to protect the country, the consequences of the attack, the rage and hatred of people towards their fellow humans has been heart-wrenching to witness. It seems once again humanity fell prey to the poisonous claws of ideological clashes, ego clashes and vested interests of the politics. More than the attack, it is the after effects that are quite disheartening. The calls for war, mutual challenges to ruin one another, arousing hatred among people in the name of patriotism, circulation of hate messages, imposing ban on innocent people by tagging them as subjects of the enemy country, etc., all seem to be hopeless and in noway heading towards a solution. In this whole scenario, the ordinary citizen of our country is swaying between his humanity (which is his very basic nature) and identity (national, religious, regional, caste, etc), not ...